Our picks · Companions · 11 qualifying services
The best AI boyfriend apps ranked: male-only apps for gay men, and the big companion apps that also do boyfriends. Prices, free tiers, honest scores.
Most AI companion apps are built around girlfriends, and the boyfriend option is often a handful of characters added later. This list only keeps apps where we could verify, on the app itself, that you can chat with male AI companions, or build your own AI boyfriend.
Gay or bi? Start with the two apps built only for male companions: ChatRoger, the most complete one, with guys sorted by type (jock, bear, twink, daddy), voice calls, photos and videos, and the smaller DreamBF.ai. The big apps above them score higher overall, but their catalogues are mostly girlfriends.
Cards are ranked by our overall score. See our methodology for how we rate.
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An AI boyfriend is a fictional male companion you chat with in an app. He has a face, a personality and a memory of your conversations, and on the apps in this list he can also send voice notes, photos and short videos. Some apps give you ready-made characters, others let you build your own from scratch: looks, age, body type, personality, voice. Everything on this page is for adults, and every character is fictional.
Most people search for one of three things: someone to talk to at the end of the day, a romance or roleplay partner, or an explicit chat with no filter. The apps above cover all three, but they are not equal on each.
This is the first filter, and the one most lists skip. On the big companion apps, men are a section next to a much larger catalogue of girlfriends. That is fine if you want a few solid characters and a good builder. If you want dozens of guys to browse, sorted by type, go for an app built only for male companions: ChatRoger or DreamBF.ai.
Every app on this page allows explicit chat with adult characters. Mainstream apps sold on the app stores do not: their store rules keep sexual content out. If explicit roleplay is part of what you want, start here rather than with the apps you see in app store ads.
A good AI boyfriend remembers your name, what you told him yesterday and how he looks. Watch two things during the free trial: does he contradict himself after a long chat, and does his face stay the same from one photo to the next. Our consistency score tracks the second one.
Text is included everywhere. Voice notes, live calls, in-chat photos and videos usually cost extra, either through the subscription or through credits. Check how many images or clips your plan actually covers before you pay.
Paid plans on this page start at about $4 a month on a yearly plan and go up to about $15 a month billed monthly. Yearly plans are much cheaper per month, so only take one after the free trial convinced you. Several apps bill discreetly: ChatRoger, for example, states that no adult transaction appears on your bank statement.
They are the names you see first when you search for an AI boyfriend, and they are good at conversation. But they are general, app-store apps, built to stay safe for a wide audience: explicit roleplay is filtered, and pushing past the filter gets the chat cut or rewritten. If you want romance only, they can do the job. If you want an adult relationship with your AI boyfriend, the apps ranked above are built for it.
Gay and bi men are the most underserved users of this category. On most apps, the male characters are written with a female user in mind. ChatRoger is the exception: every companion is a man, the catalogue is sorted the way gay men sort (jock, bear, otter, twink, daddy, cub), and the app adds voice calls, photos, videos and short AI video series. DreamBF.ai is smaller but also male-only. Among the big apps, FlirtCam has a dedicated gay boyfriend page, and JOI, Lovescape and Girlfriend GPT have Gay tags in their catalogues. For a ranking built only around gay content, see our best gay AI chat apps.
For most people it is entertainment, fantasy or a way to unwind, the same way a romance novel or a game is. It becomes a problem when it replaces real contact you actually want, or when you spend more than you planned. Two simple rules: set a monthly budget before you subscribe, and keep real names, photos and personal details out of the chat. If you feel isolated, talking to a real person helps more than any app.
The services above were picked by hand from our full comparison: we only kept apps where we could verify, on the app itself, that they fit this page, then sorted by our Overall score.
Scoring follows our standard protocol: 10 identical prompts submitted to every service, 9 axes scored out of 100 with public weighting, quarterly retest. No service sees its score before publication.
Free tier, video, realism, NSFW level and entry price, side by side.
| Service | Free tier | Video | Realism | NSFW | From |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Lovescape | ✓ | 10s | 82/100 | explicit | $19.99 |
| Candy.ai | ✓ | 10s | 78/100 | explicit | €3.99 |
| Ourdream.ai | ✓ | 8s | 73/100 | explicit | $9.99 |
| Girlfriend GPT | ✓ | ✗ | 70/100 | explicit | $13.99 |
| Joi | ✓ | length not published | 72/100 | explicit | $12.99 |
| Kupid.ai | ✓ | ✗ | 72/100 | explicit | $12.99 |
| Secrets.ai | ✓ | length not published | 74/100 | explicit | $9.17 |
| ChatRoger | ✓ | ✗ | 72/100 | explicit | $7.50 |
| DreamBF.ai | ✓ | ✗ | 68/100 | explicit | $14.99 |
| FlirtCam.ai | ✓ | ✗ | 60/100 | explicit | $12.99 |
| Couple.me | ✓ | ✗ | 68/100 | explicit | $4.13 |
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